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"Getting the Love You Want" Workshop is presented three times annually for Lesbian and Gay Couples. It provides a safe environment for couples to begin their relational journey of healing and growth. It is my wish that one day there will be no need for a special workshop like this to exist, one day lesbian and gay people and their relationships will be seen as equal, valuable and honorable by all of society. In the meantime this space is created for those lesbian and gay couples who wish to have additional safety so that work can be accomplished.

About the Workshop
An Intensive 20-hour Experience For Couples based on Imago Relationship Therapy developed by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of the best selling books Getting the Love You Want - A Guide for Couples, Keeping the Love You Want - A Guide for Couples, and Keeping the Love You Find - A Guide for Singles.

It is guided by the belief that relationships have a hidden purpose: that of healing childhood wounds. Imago Relationship Therapy stresses the importance of understanding and cooperation with this unconscious agenda and offers specific ways to access the nurturing and care from your relationship that was missed in childhood.

You will Learn...
  • To have greater compassion for your partner
  • To discover how the unconscious forces that attract you to your partner are also sources of conflict
  • To receive new tools for re-romanticizing your relationship
  • To assist each other in healing childhood wounds
  • To learn how to use your relationship for emotional healing and spiritual evolution
  • To rediscover the joy and spiritual potential of being together


  • The unique design of this workshop is appropriate for you if:

  • You want to enrich, deepen or revitalize a good relationship
  • You want to nurture a new relationship
  • You are in a difficult relationship and want to end a long-standing impasse
  • You are near breakup and want to decide if the relationship can be saved


  • Workshop Hours
    Friday 7:00pm to 10:00pm
    Saturday 8:30am to 8:00pm
    Sunday 8:30am to 7:00pm

    Workshop Cost
    $600 per couple

    Workshop Deposit
    A deposit of $250 per couple reserves a space for you. The balance must be paid in full 14 days prior to the workshop.
    A $75 administration fee will be charged for cancellations 8 days or more prior to the workshop. Cancellations may be transferred to another workshop within six months.
    Your registration fee is nontransferable and nonrefundable if: 1) you cancel seven days or less prior to the start date of the workshop; 2) if you do not attend; 3) if you do not complete the workshop. Returned checks will be assessed $25 for collection. Refunds are processed following the workshop. Accommodations and meals are not included.

    Workshop Information
    This workshop will focus on your relationship with each other. Except for a brief introduction, you will not share anything with the larger group unless you so choose. Rather than passively absorbing lecture materials, you will be asked to initiate the rediscovery of your relationship, its hows and whys. Often you will write down details about your needs in the relationship and then share that information in a format that encourages understanding.

    The workshop format includes:
  • Lectures about the purpose and dynamics of your intimate relationship
  • Guided Imagery, individual reflection and writing
  • Demonstration of communication skills
  • Practicing new behaviors and skills with your partner


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